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Fears can give
only tears
The biggest barrier that most
people have to overcome is fear. Fear of rejection. Fear of making
decisions. Fear of change. Fear of confrontation. Fear of loss. We
become preoccupied with the possible losses we might suffer and the
possible criticisms we might endure.
Optimism is essential to achievement
and it is also the foundation of courage and of true progress.
So be optimist and you will get courage to throw the fear out of
your mind. As you can see, it is your fears and doubts that, more
than anything else undermine your self-esteem and self-confidence
and cause us to think in negative terms about ourselves and our
possibilities. Our fears and doubts paralyze us, preventing us from
acting boldly, lowering our self-confidence and causing us to think
and talk in negative terms.
Fear
is nothing more than a state of mind. One’s state of mind is a
subject to control and direction – the negative use of the thought
enables our hopes and ideals to be realized. The choice rests
entirely on us. If you are able to conquer your fear, you can
conquer your failure. Every human being has the ability to control
his own mind. Nature has endowed man with absolute control over one
thing, and that is thought. Every thing that a man creates begins in
the form of a thought.
Blast through your
fears, discover your worthiness, and feel confident in any
situation.
To increase your confidence love
yourself. Walk faster. Maintain eye contact while talking. Develop
habit to speak in public. Never feel shy to ask the question of
which you don’t know the answer. Ask boldly about it. Don’t accept
the things unless you clear your doubts about it.
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